Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Can't Stand The Friend

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You've had a friend for years,
just met a friend, or would
like to be his or her friend
then read on.

You two have seen eye to eye
on almost everything, or hit
it off well.

You don't get nervous in front
of your friend, can tell him or
her anything. Your friend
understands, and never makes
rude comments about your
decisions. He or she stands
by you.

Your soon to be friend cares
nothing about flaws, laughs
at your off-beat jokes, and
enjoys being around you.

However, your friend or
almost friend knows someone
who is annoying, pushy even.

"How do I handle him or her?"
You sighed.

It's wise not to get into a
verbal battle, or any
confrontation with him or her.

Explain your feelings, if
necessary, to your friend.
Allow your friend to
get a handle on the situation.

Be polite to the friend's
friend. Yes, it's hard when
someone rather be any place
else than in your presence.

Eventually, things have a
way of working out.

Perhaps, the friend's friend
will accept you, and be
cordial.

If not, don't allow the
negativity from the friend's
friend to spoil your
relationship.

Good friends are hard to find.

In closing, be polite to someone
who dislikes you. Most times,
it's not your fault. Out of
respect for a friend, don't
insult your friend's friend.

Simply, ask him or her to say
what they have to in front of
your mutual friend.

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