Personal code is the principles, ethics, a person develops, has. It's what makes an individual live, thrive, be. It's she, he, and me.
In the world of relationships, pick a partner, person, who understands your personal code. Why? Confusion, upset, barrels from those that "don't get you."
You can explain and show, but few will understand or come-around to your personal code. The other person's personal code will prefer not to let him/her appreciate your personal code.
Problems start to pop-up. Gossip from him/her about you circulates. Confrontations creep in. Perhaps, stalker behavior arise. The need for law enforcement happens.
Although, the first signs of a person at odds with your personal code is reason to move away from him/her. Slowly, peel yourself out of his/her life. No one gets around, over or under personal code. It's what makes us unique.
"I'll meet him/her half-way." You said.
"I can change him/her." You tried to make excuses.
"Opposites attract." Someone insisted.
In the end, people with different personal codes clash, no matter how hard you try to make it work.
Do you know of or have experienced mis-matched personal codes? Please share it.
Monday, November 18, 2013
Saturday, November 9, 2013
I Was Work Place Bullied
Once upon my life, I interviewed for a job. I wasn't sure how the interview went. I waited at home for "the call."
A few days passed, and "the call" to report to work came.
The six week training session passed quickly.
The power wheeling females ripped newbies into groups. Sexual advances were showered on us, from them.
I ducked them, didn't I stand why the females were treating me, us, like fresh meat. This is work place bullied.
Mz.Manager wrote vile evaluations on me. Work left on my desk was found behind anything. Co-workers refused to answer work related questions.
When I tipped into the break-room, you could hear a feather drop.
It was clear to everyone that there was a problem. I was removed from the department, soon returned. The situation became worse.
There was no help for me there, or any hope of advancement.
I decided to apply for other jobs, and sent out over one hundred resumes. I received one response back: You're over-qualified.
Mz. Manager fired me, or I was retired.
It's some years later, and I'm still unemployed.
A few days passed, and "the call" to report to work came.
The six week training session passed quickly.
The power wheeling females ripped newbies into groups. Sexual advances were showered on us, from them.
I ducked them, didn't I stand why the females were treating me, us, like fresh meat. This is work place bullied.
Mz.Manager wrote vile evaluations on me. Work left on my desk was found behind anything. Co-workers refused to answer work related questions.
When I tipped into the break-room, you could hear a feather drop.
It was clear to everyone that there was a problem. I was removed from the department, soon returned. The situation became worse.
There was no help for me there, or any hope of advancement.
I decided to apply for other jobs, and sent out over one hundred resumes. I received one response back: You're over-qualified.
Mz. Manager fired me, or I was retired.
It's some years later, and I'm still unemployed.
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Shooter: "Are You TSA?"
Paul Anthony Ciancia, 23-year-year, Catholic School graduate hails from New Jersey.
Ciancia fired an assault rifle at the Los Angeles International Airport, Friday.
Gerardo Hernandez, 39, shot fatally, and others hurt.
"Hey, are you, TSA?" The shooter went around asking people, according to reports.
The charges for Ciancia are murder of a federal officer and violence in an international airport, U.S. Attorney Andre Birotte, Jr.
Law Enforcement in Los Angeles and New Jersey are searching for Ciancia's reasons for such actions.
Ciancia is new to Los Angeles, been there about a year.
Ciancia has no history of mental illness or violence, Allen Cummings, Police Chief in Ciancia's home-town of Pennsville, New Jersey.
Ciancia didn't appear to be troubled at the last family get-together, family members.
Ciancia carried enough ammunition to "have literally killed everyone in the terminal, "Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garretti.
I'm devastated, the widow.
Ciancia remains in the hospital after being shot multiple times.
Ciancia fired an assault rifle at the Los Angeles International Airport, Friday.
Gerardo Hernandez, 39, shot fatally, and others hurt.
"Hey, are you, TSA?" The shooter went around asking people, according to reports.
The charges for Ciancia are murder of a federal officer and violence in an international airport, U.S. Attorney Andre Birotte, Jr.
Law Enforcement in Los Angeles and New Jersey are searching for Ciancia's reasons for such actions.
Ciancia is new to Los Angeles, been there about a year.
Ciancia has no history of mental illness or violence, Allen Cummings, Police Chief in Ciancia's home-town of Pennsville, New Jersey.
Ciancia didn't appear to be troubled at the last family get-together, family members.
Ciancia carried enough ammunition to "have literally killed everyone in the terminal, "Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garretti.
I'm devastated, the widow.
Ciancia remains in the hospital after being shot multiple times.
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